Facebook, People & Life

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It was just recently when we discovered Facebook and Twitter and all the rest followed. Basic exposure happened somewhere in 2009 and it was so much fun then. People were less and posts were not so many. It was good to connect to some long lost friends and family. Being on Facebook was ever so awesome.

What actually started in 2004 Feb as a medium of exchanging notes and thought for University students from Harvard spread to the rest of the schools and became a viral. By 2012 Facebook had over One Billion users. It just took everyone up by a storm and since then no one looked back. Slowly as everyone knows people learnt how to use computers and how to login, be it any age young or old.

Then started the privacy issues, people started hunting for privacy on Facebook and would start hiding what they were posting. All sorts can be seen here, be it the happy ones or the perpetually sad ones, or the crazy whacky ones also the perverts poured in. Fun quotient was still there. There was so much love and happiness all over Facebook. People were excited about sharing all and caring for all.  Some people were intelligent and held guard from the beginning and some were emotional fools and just let it flow.

Now the scene is different. Facebook has now become a scale to measure love, relationships make or break due to posts and shares on Facebook, people fake all and most of it. Life is different now. Privacy is on high priority.

What you like, share, follow and post decides the pattern of your relationships now a days. Instead of letting technology which is so awesome we are regressing in life. The platform where all our friends and family reside online has now become the way to make or break relationships. Some are only doing PR on Facebook and will do anything for it, others are just jealous with other peoples’ happiness and good times posted online. Sadly now there is no honesty left on Facebook.

Even then a large feeling of content is derived from this platform and a huge wave of addiction follows wherever it touches. It is amazing to see how people share so much love and joy with everyone. So many new places are there to catch on when friends or friends of friends post travel pictures, so many new things we get to learn in so many fields, so much healthy exposure happens. If only the jealously factor was not there – Facebook would still be heaven on Earth.

The thing to wonder is what will happen in the coming few years… will it become extinct like Orkut which simply fizzled out, or will it still manage to stay in people’s heart and soul for times to come.

May it just be Facebook Forever.

The Red Carpet & Paparazzi

 ... & I write.

… & I write.

Trying to kill time as I wait in a coffee shop… some decaff espresso aroma making me swoon… one nice sunset with some music … I pick up a pen and a paper (another amazing feeling to write on pen and paper)… then I scroll down on my phone with a sip of my coffee… bliss!!!

As I scroll through twitter (to which I’m hooked lately after I read a post called Twitter greetings) and I see the tweeple busy and I read the lines which got me writing… “Ten Worst Dressed People On The Red Carpet.” Gosh…what a feeling…!!!

I was thinking it must be such an awkward feeling to be on this list. I feel sometimes if I were a celebrity I would dread the moment where they would click me and put it up on the worst dressed page…whoosh…!!!

And where is it that we don’t have badly dressed ones and where is it that the camera does not catch them…

So imagine just how stressful it must be for a celebrity to look good all the time, dress well always, check on make up forever and do their hair every time they step out of their house. Wow…!!!

How many designers they must be hiring and how many dresses they would be trying on before they zero on one whether it is a man or woman. Be it Bollywood or Hollywood the paparazzi hangs like a sword on their heads.

Come to think of it from what I heard it was the cameras and the paparazzi Princess Diana was running away from when she met with an accident. How sad was that.

So many must have dipped into deep depression and many must have committed suicides… but on the other hand it is this same reason which pulls them out of oblivion and brings them to limelight. It is the same paparazzi which flies with them when they soar high in the sky.

Well as they say… ‘Joy and sorrow walk hand in hand’… So this phenomenon shall go on too…

& I shall keep writing.